Steps to Take After Surviving Rape or Sexual Assault

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Sexual assault is a deeply traumatic and often devastating experience that affects far too many victims in the United States and around the globe. Determining what to do after being raped can be overwhelming, but it’s critical for your health, safety, and potential legal recourse. This guide aims to provide clear, compassionate advice for survivors of sexual assault.

Steps to Take After Surviving Rape or Sexual Assault

Dordulian Law Group’s Los Angeles sexual assault lawyers have compiled key information, including the vital steps to take after sexual violence (such as medical care, reporting options, and getting emotional support). We’ll also include information on locating resources for your healing and recovery.

Understanding Sexual Assault Statistics and Misconceptions

Contrary to popular belief, sexual assault is rarely committed by strangers lurking in dark alleys. According to Dordulian Law Group’s affiliate partner, RAINN (the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network), 45% of rapes are committed by an acquaintance, while 25% are perpetrated by a current or former intimate partner. This reality can make it harder for survivors to recognize and report their assault.

It’s important to dispel common myths about sexual assault:

  • Myth: If you’ve consented to sex with someone before, you can’t be raped by them.
  • Reality: Consent must be given every time. Moreover, past consent doesn’t equal future consent.
  • Myth: Only women can be raped.
  • Reality: Anyone, regardless of gender, can be a victim of sexual assault.

Remember: Sexual assault is never the victim’s fault, regardless of circumstances.

What to Do After Being Raped: Immediate Steps

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If you’ve experienced sexual assault, your safety is the top priority. Here are the immediate steps to take:

  1. Get to a safe place away from the attacker.
  2. Call a trusted friend or family member for support.
  3. Preserve evidence: Don’t shower, change clothes, or clean up the area.
  4. Seek medical attention as soon as possible.
  5. Consider reporting the assault to the police.
  6. Consider speaking with an attorney to explore your civil legal options

Medical Examination and Evidence Collection After Sexual Assault

Seeking medical care after a sexual assault is vital for your health and can also provide important evidence if you choose to report the crime. Here’s what you need to know about the medical exam:

  • It’s best to have the exam done within 72 hours of the assault, but evidence can sometimes be collected up to a week later.
  • You have control over what happens during the exam. You can stop, pause, or skip any part of the process.
  • The exam typically includes treating injuries, preventing STIs, and offering emergency contraception.
  • Evidence is collected through a “rape kit,” which may include swabs, hair samples, and photographs of injuries.
  • You can have the exam done without reporting to law enforcement if you’re unsure about pressing charges.

Reporting Rape to the Police: What You Need to Know

Deciding whether to report a sexual assault to the police is a personal choice. Here are some things to consider:

  • Reporting immediately can help preserve evidence and increase the chances of catching the perpetrator.
  • You can still report the assault later if you’re not ready to do so immediately.
  • During the reporting process, you may need to recount the details of the assault. This can be difficult, but victim advocates can provide support.
  • Even if you’re unsure about reporting, preserving evidence (like not washing clothes or showering) keeps your options open.

Emotional Support and Healing for Rape Survivors

The emotional impact of sexual assault can be profound and long-lasting. It’s important to seek support:

  • Consider speaking with a counselor or therapist who specializes in trauma.
  • Join a support group for sexual assault survivors.
  • Use rape crisis hotlines for immediate support and resources.
  • Practice self-care: engage in activities that make you feel safe and comfortable.
  • Be patient with yourself. Healing is a process that takes time.

Rape Prevention and Consent in Relationships

While the responsibility for prevention always lies with potential perpetrators, understanding consent and recognizing red flags can help reduce risk. Here’s some important things to remember about sexual consent:

  • Consent must be enthusiastic, ongoing, and can be withdrawn at any time.
  • Clear communication is key in all relationships, sexual or otherwise.
  • Be aware of tactics like isolation, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or pressuring, which may be signs of potential abuse.
  • Trust your instincts. If a situation feels unsafe, it’s okay to leave.
  • Empower yourself to set and maintain clear boundaries in all relationships.

Remember, no matter the circumstances, sexual assault is never the victim’s fault. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, don’t hesitate to reach out to Dordulian Law Group for help. In addition to legal guidance, there are resources and support available to help you through this difficult time.

FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions About Sexual Assault)

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Yes, you can report a sexual assault at any time. However, be aware that the passage of time may make it more challenging to gather physical evidence. Many states have extended or eliminated statutes of limitations for sexual assault cases, so it’s worth exploring your options with a legal professional or victim advocate. For example, in California, criminal rape does not have a statute of limitations, and perpetrators can be prosecuted at any time.

Freezing is a common and natural response to trauma. It doesn’t mean you consented or that the assault was your fault. Many people experience a “freeze” response when faced with danger. Remember, the absence of a “no” is not the same as giving consent.

Listen without judgment, believe them, and let them know it’s not their fault. Offer to accompany them to medical appointments or to file a police report if they choose to pursue those options. Respect their decisions about how to handle the situation, and help them connect with professional support services if needed.

Long-term effects of sexual assault can include post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, substance abuse issues, and difficulties in relationships. However, with proper support and treatment, many survivors are able to move forward and lead fulfilling lives. Everyone’s healing journey is unique, and there’s no “right” way to recover from sexual assault.

Yes, there are resources specifically for male survivors of sexual assault. Organizations like 1in6 and MaleSurvivor offer support, information, and referrals tailored to the unique needs of male survivors. It’s important to remember that sexual assault can happen to anyone, regardless of gender, and all survivors deserve support and care.

How to File a California Sexual Assault Claim

As a survivor of sexual violence, you have the right to file a civil lawsuit for damages – whether against an individual or an institution (like an employer, a company, a school, etc.)

In California, survivors of sexual assault typically have a 10-year deadline to file a civil claim (meaning you have 10 years from the date that the crime occurred to consult with an attorney and file a lawsuit). But currently there is an extended window allowing any adult survivor of sexual assault to bring a civil action for damages related to a crime occurring after January 1, 2009.

California AB 2777 (also known as the Sexual Abuse And Cover-Up Accountability Act) affords all adult survivors with the option to file a civil lawsuit for applicable damages:

  • Emotional trauma/psychological harm
  • Pain and suffering
  • Job loss/lost wages
  • Punitive damages
  • Reduced quality of life
  • Medical bills and counseling/therapy expenses
  • Punitive damages

To speak with an experienced, proven, and trusted Los Angeles sexual assault attorney from Dordulian Law Group about your case, contact us now at 866-GO-SEE-SAM for a free and confidential consultation.

Speak With a Los Angeles Sexual Assault Lawyer Today

At Dordulian Law Group, we believe it’s essential for sexual assault survivors to be represented by experienced attorneys who will serve as their dedicated advocates and fight for their rights. This requires empathy for you, the survivor. But it also demands an appreciation of the difficulty involved in taking the first step towards filing a lawsuit against your perpetrator. Additionally, given the sensitive nature of sex abuse crimes and the physical, emotional, and psychological toll it can have on victims, you require and are entitled to utmost discretion on the part of your attorney.

If you are one of the countless sexual assault victims who are now eligible to file a lawsuit under the new California AB 2777 law, it is imperative that you take action as soon as possible. To ensure that your case has the best chance of success and securing justice, time is of the essence. We are dedicated to affording you the opportunity to secure justice through the courts and move forward after such a traumatic event.

If you experienced a sexual assault incident, don’t wait to file a claim. Contact our expert attorneys online or by phone for a free consultation today.

Contact Dordulian Law Group’s Los Angeles sexual assault attorneys today by calling 866-GO-SEE-SAM. The consultation is free, and you never have to worry about upfront fees or legal expenses. You pay nothing until after we’ve successfully secured justice through a maximum financial damages award for your case.

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Sam Dordulian is an award-winning sexual abuse lawyer with over 25 years’ experience helping survivors secure justice. As a former sex crimes prosecutor and Deputy District Attorney for L.A. County, he secured life sentences against countless sexual predators. Mr. Dordulian currently serves on the National Leadership Council for RAINN.

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A former Deputy District Attorney, Sam Dordulian is a highly-experienced lawyer in Los Angeles, CA, who has assisted in the prosecution of countless criminals. He is now using his experience and passion to advocate for sexual abuse victims and those involved in personal injury disputes.